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A practice built on
relationship.
Children and young people are not problems to be fixed. They are individuals whose inner worlds deserve careful, respectful understanding.
Founded on a humanistic belief
Kensington Square Therapy was founded on a belief that children and young people are not problems to be fixed. They are individuals whose inner worlds deserve careful, respectful understanding.
When a child begins to struggle, we ask what is happening around them, what pressures they are carrying, and how they are making sense of it. Independent education offers opportunity and stimulation. It can also create sustained demands. Some children manage this outwardly while feeling stretched internally.
Therapeutic work creates space for recalibration. When a child feels genuinely heard and taken seriously, their nervous system settles. Regulation strengthens. They come back into contact with learning, friendships, and the opportunities around them without feeling constantly braced.
We support children, adolescents, and young adults up to the age of 25. Sessions take place within schools, at our centre in Kensington Square, and online where appropriate. The setting may change. The ethos does not.
A clinical framework built on relationship
Children engage when they feel respected rather than managed
Our therapists work relationally and developmentally, drawing from humanistic foundations and integrative clinical training. We prioritise understanding before intervention. Young people are given a voice. Therapy is not something done to them. It is a collaborative process. We speak openly with children about what therapy is, what it is not, and whether they feel ready to engage.
We are therapists first. Diagnosis is not our starting point
We consider family relationships, peer dynamics, learning differences, identity development, and the emotional impact of sustained expectations. Where specialist assessment is appropriate, we guide families thoughtfully. Where it is not, we focus on strengthening the child's capacity to manage their world with greater steadiness.
Care that is integrated rather than fragmented
Alongside our therapists and counsellors, we collaborate with trusted professionals including Speech and Language Therapists, Psychiatrists, and other specialists where required. When additional expertise is needed, it can be coordinated thoughtfully. When it is not, therapy remains focused and proportionate.
Children thrive when the adults around them are aligned
Parent consultations are a central part of our model. These conversations offer space to reflect, understand emerging patterns, and consider practical adjustments that reduce unnecessary strain. Parents often leave feeling clearer and more confident in how to support their child.
For parents who wish to explore their own therapeutic support, we have specialist clinicians within KST and can facilitate referral where appropriate.
Within schools, we collaborate professionally and with care. Safeguarding responsibilities are upheld rigorously. Our therapists communicate carefully and proportionately, always with the child’s trust in mind.
Confidentiality is explained clearly to every young person from the outset. What they share in therapy remains private unless there is a concern about safety or significant risk. Trust is grounded in transparency.
Counsellors do not share detailed session content with parents. They can, however, discuss general themes, areas of focus, and supportive strategies for home.
The aim is to surround the child with steady adults, while preserving the integrity of their therapeutic space.
An umbrella during periods of heightened pressure
The 11+ journey can intensify pressure, even in families working hard to stay measured. Our 11+ Wellbeing Support Groups, delivered within schools throughout the year, provide perspective and practical emotional tools. They create space for pupils to think about the experience of assessment rather than being swept along by it.
Expectations may still exist. Results still matter. But children are not left navigating that intensity alone.
The purpose is not to reduce ambition. It is to ensure ambition does not override emotional health.
Thank you for finding your way here.
I appreciate that arriving on a therapy website can feel like a particular kind of decision, even when nothing is yet settled. So I wanted to say a little, in my own voice, about why Kensington Square Therapy exists.
I founded KST after more than a decade working as a counsellor inside London’s independent schools. Over those years it became really clear to me that families in this part of the city are often navigating something quite specific, and that they are not always being met with the kind of support that fits. School counsellors do brilliant work, but their time is stretched. Private therapists offer wonderful clinical care, but they do not always understand the rhythm of an independent school week, or what an entrance assessment year actually does to a ten year old. KST exists to sit in that space, with proper clinical training, and with a real feel for what families like yours are carrying.
I appreciate how important it is that you trust the people you let near your child. So I would rather we are very honest about what we are, and what we are not. We are not a crisis service. We do not promise outcomes. We are not the right fit for every family that gets in touch. What we do offer is twenty years of close attention to children inside independent education, and a small team of clinicians that holds the work carefully.
If you are reading because something is worrying you about your child, or because you yourself would like a thinking space, you are very welcome to write. I read every enquiry personally, and aim to come back to you within one working day.
Many thanks,
Sam McManus
Founder · MBACP · MNCPS (Acc.)
Sam McManus
MBACP | Accredited Member NCPS | MA Humanistic Counselling Practice
Sam McManus founded Kensington Square Therapy in 2025. Practising since 2010, with over a decade of specialist experience in the independent school sector, his clinical work has been shaped by sustained close engagement with the particular pressures of independent education: entrance assessments, accelerated expectations, and the gap that can open between outward achievement and internal experience.
Independent school children carry expectations and pressures that need specialised understanding. Generic support, offered elsewhere, does not reach the specific weight of this cohort. We have spent a decade understanding what does.
Sam holds an MA in Humanistic Counselling Practice. He is a registered member of the BACP and an accredited member of the NCPS. Humanistic in foundation and integrative in approach, his practice draws from sustained clinical engagement with children and adolescents, alongside parent consultations and pastoral consultation to school staff.
Sam remains clinically active within KST, overseeing the practice’s therapeutic framework and working directly with families and schools across West London.
The standards we work within
The credentials and frameworks that sit underneath every session. These are the questions a careful parent or pastoral lead would think to ask. We’ve put them in one place.
- Professional registration
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Sam McManus is a registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (MBACP, reg. 191886) and an accredited member of the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society (MNCPS Acc.). All KST practitioners work within the BACP Ethical Framework for the Counselling Professions and the NCPS Code of Ethics.
- Professional indemnity
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Full professional indemnity and public liability cover held continuously, in line with BACP membership requirements. Insurer: Hiscox Underwriting Ltd (policy OXY8749916).
- Data protection
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Kensington Square Therapy Ltd is registered with the Information Commissioner’s Office as a data controller, registration ZC022097. Client records are held within encrypted, UK-hosted clinical systems. See our Privacy Policy for the full detail of how we handle data.
- Safeguarding & DBS
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All KST practitioners hold enhanced DBS clearance, maintained on the DBS Update Service. Sam McManus is the practice’s Designated Safeguarding Lead. Our full position on the protection of children is set out in the Safeguarding Policy.
- Clinical supervision
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All KST clinicians undertake monthly clinical supervision with a senior, externally-engaged supervisor, in line with BACP ethical requirements for ongoing supervised practice. Safeguarding is a standing item on every supervision agenda.
- If something feels wrong
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We would always prefer you tell us first. Our Complaints Procedure sets out the route in full, including independent recourse to the BACP Professional Conduct Procedure and the NCPS Complaints Procedure, both of which sit outside the practice.
Embedded in independent schools across West London.
What we make alongside the clinical work
The clinical practice is the centre. Around it, we have built a small ecosystem of resources for parents and children, written and updated by the same therapists who do the work. Free where they can be, partnered with schools where context shapes them.
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The Parent Book
A digital parent support hub for partner schools. Written and updated by therapists, refreshed each half-term, shaped by the school community it serves.
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Wellbeing Tips
A small family of free tools for the daily small moments. One tap, always free.
Inside the family: Mootivation · Purrspective · Wise Woofs, animal-companion wellbeing apps for children and the adults around them. breath.zone · regulation.zone · thesleep.zone, focused single-purpose tools for the moments that matter most.
wellbeing.tips
Each piece is its own register. Together they form a single family of work, anchored in the same clinical belief that informs the consulting room.
What we offer
Our philosophy informs how we listen, how we pace work, how we collaborate, and how we hold the therapeutic space. It does not vary between settings or between clients.
Every service we offer is an expression of the same underlying commitment: to meet each child, young person, or family precisely where they are.
We do not seek to change who your child is.
We support them to flourish within the demands placed upon them, while remaining the unique shape they are.
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1:1 Clinical Sessions
For children, young people, and university students. Private sessions at Kensington Square or online.
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Embedded School Counselling
Pastoral counselling embedded within independent schools, with flexible commissioning models.
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11+ Wellbeing Support
Year-round therapeutic groups for Year 5 and 6, delivered within schools throughout the academic year.
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Parent Consultations
Structured therapeutic conversations for parents and carers, independent of child therapy.
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In Person and Online
Sessions at 23 Kensington Square, London W8, within schools, or online where appropriate.
Ready to find out more?
All enquiries are handled personally. We respond within one working day.
Get in TouchA note from Sam
I appreciate how important it is that you trust the people you let near your child. So I would rather we are very honest about what we are, and what we are not. We are not a crisis service. We do not diagnose. We do not promise outcomes. We are not the right fit for every family that gets in touch. What we do offer is ten years of close attention to children inside independent education, and a small team of clinicians that holds the work carefully.